{"id":107,"date":"2021-01-29T10:44:50","date_gmt":"2021-01-29T13:44:50","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/estudobiblico.org\/az\/?p=107"},"modified":"2021-01-29T10:44:50","modified_gmt":"2021-01-29T13:44:50","slug":"valideynl%c9%99r-usaqlar-v%c9%99-kils%c9%99","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/estudobiblico.org\/az\/2021\/01\/29\/valideynl%c9%99r-usaqlar-v%c9%99-kils%c9%99\/","title":{"rendered":"Valideynl\u0259r, u\u015faqlar v\u0259 kils\u0259"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>C\u0259miyy\u0259tin \u00fczvl\u0259ri olaraq, xristian valideynl\u0259r \u00f6vladlar\u0131na t\u0259hsil verm\u0259lidirl\u0259r v\u0259 bel\u0259 bir ittiham\u0131 kils\u0259y\u0259 v\u0259 ya ba\u015fqa bir t\u0259\u015fkilata qoymamal\u0131d\u0131rlar.<\/p>\n<hr \/>\n<div id=\"ez-toc-container\" class=\"ez-toc-v2_0_82_2 counter-hierarchy ez-toc-counter ez-toc-grey ez-toc-container-direction\">\n<div class=\"ez-toc-title-container\">\n<p class=\"ez-toc-title\" style=\"cursor:inherit\">Table of Contents<\/p>\n<span class=\"ez-toc-title-toggle\"><a href=\"#\" class=\"ez-toc-pull-right ez-toc-btn ez-toc-btn-xs ez-toc-btn-default ez-toc-toggle\" aria-label=\"Toggle Table of Content\"><span class=\"ez-toc-js-icon-con\"><span class=\"\"><span class=\"eztoc-hide\" style=\"display:none;\">Toggle<\/span><span class=\"ez-toc-icon-toggle-span\"><svg style=\"fill: #999;color:#999\" xmlns=\"http:\/\/www.w3.org\/2000\/svg\" class=\"list-377408\" width=\"20px\" height=\"20px\" viewBox=\"0 0 24 24\" fill=\"none\"><path d=\"M6 6H4v2h2V6zm14 0H8v2h12V6zM4 11h2v2H4v-2zm16 0H8v2h12v-2zM4 16h2v2H4v-2zm16 0H8v2h12v-2z\" fill=\"currentColor\"><\/path><\/svg><svg style=\"fill: #999;color:#999\" class=\"arrow-unsorted-368013\" xmlns=\"http:\/\/www.w3.org\/2000\/svg\" width=\"10px\" height=\"10px\" viewBox=\"0 0 24 24\" version=\"1.2\" baseProfile=\"tiny\"><path d=\"M18.2 9.3l-6.2-6.3-6.2 6.3c-.2.2-.3.4-.3.7s.1.5.3.7c.2.2.4.3.7.3h11c.3 0 .5-.1.7-.3.2-.2.3-.5.3-.7s-.1-.5-.3-.7zM5.8 14.7l6.2 6.3 6.2-6.3c.2-.2.3-.5.3-.7s-.1-.5-.3-.7c-.2-.2-.4-.3-.7-.3h-11c-.3 0-.5.1-.7.3-.2.2-.3.5-.3.7s.1.5.3.7z\"\/><\/svg><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/a><\/span><\/div>\n<nav><ul class='ez-toc-list ez-toc-list-level-1 ' ><li class='ez-toc-page-1 ez-toc-heading-level-2'><a class=\"ez-toc-link ez-toc-heading-1\" href=\"https:\/\/estudobiblico.org\/az\/2021\/01\/29\/valideynl%c9%99r-usaqlar-v%c9%99-kils%c9%99\/#Valideynl%C9%99r_usaqlar_v%C9%99_kils%C9%99\" >Valideynl\u0259r, u\u015faqlar v\u0259 kils\u0259<\/a><\/li><li class='ez-toc-page-1 ez-toc-heading-level-2'><a class=\"ez-toc-link ez-toc-heading-2\" href=\"https:\/\/estudobiblico.org\/az\/2021\/01\/29\/valideynl%c9%99r-usaqlar-v%c9%99-kils%c9%99\/#Giris\" >Giri\u015f<\/a><\/li><li class='ez-toc-page-1 ez-toc-heading-level-2'><a class=\"ez-toc-link ez-toc-heading-3\" href=\"https:\/\/estudobiblico.org\/az\/2021\/01\/29\/valideynl%c9%99r-usaqlar-v%c9%99-kils%c9%99\/#Momin_oglunun_yenid%C9%99n_dunyaya_g%C9%99lm%C9%99si_lazimdir\" >M\u00f6min o\u011flunun yenid\u0259n d\u00fcnyaya g\u0259lm\u0259si laz\u0131md\u0131r<\/a><\/li><li class='ez-toc-page-1 ez-toc-heading-level-2'><a class=\"ez-toc-link ez-toc-heading-4\" href=\"https:\/\/estudobiblico.org\/az\/2021\/01\/29\/valideynl%c9%99r-usaqlar-v%c9%99-kils%c9%99\/#Kils%C9%99_M%C9%99sihin_b%C9%99d%C9%99nidir\" >Kils\u0259 M\u0259sihin b\u0259d\u0259nidir<\/a><\/li><li class='ez-toc-page-1 ez-toc-heading-level-2'><a class=\"ez-toc-link ez-toc-heading-5\" href=\"https:\/\/estudobiblico.org\/az\/2021\/01\/29\/valideynl%c9%99r-usaqlar-v%c9%99-kils%c9%99\/#T%C9%99hsil_verm%C9%99k_m%C9%99suliyy%C9%99ti\" >T\u0259hsil verm\u0259k m\u0259suliyy\u0259ti<\/a><\/li><li class='ez-toc-page-1 ez-toc-heading-level-2'><a class=\"ez-toc-link ez-toc-heading-6\" href=\"https:\/\/estudobiblico.org\/az\/2021\/01\/29\/valideynl%c9%99r-usaqlar-v%c9%99-kils%c9%99\/#T%C9%99hsil%C9%99_n%C9%99_vaxt_baslayacaqsiniz\" >T\u0259hsil\u0259 n\u0259 vaxt ba\u015flayacaqs\u0131n\u0131z?<\/a><\/li><li class='ez-toc-page-1 ez-toc-heading-level-2'><a class=\"ez-toc-link ez-toc-heading-7\" href=\"https:\/\/estudobiblico.org\/az\/2021\/01\/29\/valideynl%c9%99r-usaqlar-v%c9%99-kils%c9%99\/#Usaqlar_v%C9%99_c%C9%99miyy%C9%99t\" >U\u015faqlar v\u0259 c\u0259miyy\u0259t<\/a><\/li><\/ul><\/nav><\/div>\n<h2 style=\"text-align: center\"><span class=\"ez-toc-section\" id=\"Valideynl%C9%99r_usaqlar_v%C9%99_kils%C9%99\"><\/span><span style=\"text-decoration: underline\"><strong>Valideynl\u0259r, u\u015faqlar v\u0259 kils\u0259<\/strong><\/span><span class=\"ez-toc-section-end\"><\/span><\/h2>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<h2><span class=\"ez-toc-section\" id=\"Giris\"><\/span><span style=\"text-decoration: underline\"><strong>Giri\u015f<\/strong><\/span><span class=\"ez-toc-section-end\"><\/span><\/h2>\n<p>\u00d6vlad\u0131m\u0131 kils\u0259d\u0259 saxlamaq \u00fc\u00e7\u00fcn n\u0259 ed\u0259 bil\u0259r\u0259m? Bu, bir \u00e7ox xristian valideynl\u0259r t\u0259r\u0259find\u0259n veril\u0259n bir suald\u0131r.<\/p>\n<p>Ki\u00e7ik u\u015faqlar\u0131 olanlar, u\u015faqlar\u0131n\u0131n kils\u0259d\u0259n uzaqla\u015fmas\u0131n\u0131 mane\u0259 t\u00f6r\u0259tm\u0259k \u00fc\u00e7\u00fcn d\u00fcsturlar ist\u0259yirl\u0259r v\u0259 \u00f6zl\u0259rini kils\u0259d\u0259n uzaqla\u015fd\u0131ran b\u00f6y\u00fck u\u015faqlar\u0131 olanlar Tanr\u0131n\u0131n bir m\u00f6c\u00fcz\u0259 g\u00f6st\u0259rm\u0259sini ist\u0259yirl\u0259r.<\/p>\n<p>N\u0259 etm\u0259li?<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<h2><span class=\"ez-toc-section\" id=\"Momin_oglunun_yenid%C9%99n_dunyaya_g%C9%99lm%C9%99si_lazimdir\"><\/span><span style=\"text-decoration: underline\"><strong>M\u00f6min o\u011flunun yenid\u0259n d\u00fcnyaya g\u0259lm\u0259si laz\u0131md\u0131r<\/strong><\/span><span class=\"ez-toc-section-end\"><\/span><\/h2>\n<p>H\u0259r \u015feyd\u0259n \u0259vv\u0259l, h\u0259r bir xristian \u2018b\u0259d\u0259n \u00f6vladlar\u0131 Allah\u0131n \u00f6vladlar\u0131 olmad\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131\u2019 bilm\u0259lidir. Kimi? Evangelist v\u0259 \/ v\u0259 ya protestant do\u011fum yerind\u0259 do\u011fulan \u00f6vlad\u0131m Tanr\u0131 \u00f6vlad\u0131 deyilmi?<\/p>\n<p>\u0130ndi \u2018bir m\u00f6minin o\u011flu Tanr\u0131n\u0131n o\u011flu olsayd\u0131\u2019, \u0130brahimin b\u00fct\u00fcn n\u0259sill\u0259rinin d\u0259 Allah\u0131n \u00f6vladlar\u0131 oldu\u011fu il\u0259 raz\u0131la\u015fmal\u0131y\u0131q, lakin bu, \u0130ncild\u0259 \u00f6yr\u0259dil\u0259n deyil.<\/p>\n<p>H\u0259vari Pavel Romadak\u0131 m\u0259sih\u00e7il\u0259r\u0259 m\u0259ktub yazaraq, \u0130brahimin c\u0259s\u0259dinin n\u0259sli olma\u011f\u0131n ilahi qovu\u015fma imkan\u0131 verm\u0259diyini a\u00e7\u0131q \u015f\u0259kild\u0259 bildirdi. <strong>\u201cAllah\u0131n k\u0259lam\u0131n\u0131n \u0259skik olmamas\u0131 deyil, \u00e7\u00fcnki \u0130sraild\u0259n olanlar\u0131n ham\u0131s\u0131 \u0130srail deyil; \u0130brahimin n\u0259slind\u0259n olduqlar\u0131 \u00fc\u00e7\u00fcn deyil, ham\u0131s\u0131 \u00f6vladlarm\u0131? \u201d<\/strong>(Rom. 9: 6 -7). <strong>\u201c&#8230; Tanr\u0131n\u0131n \u00f6vladlar\u0131 olan cismani \u00f6vladlar deyil, v\u0259d olunmu\u015f u\u015faqlar n\u0259sill\u0259r say\u0131l\u0131r\u201d<\/strong> (Rom. 9: 8). \u0130ndi \u0130brahimin \u00f6vladlar\u0131 Tanr\u0131n\u0131n \u00f6vladlar\u0131 deyils\u0259, bununla da bir m\u00f6min o\u011flu Allah\u0131n \u00f6vlad\u0131 olmad\u0131\u011f\u0131 ortaya \u00e7\u0131x\u0131r.<\/p>\n<p>Bu s\u0259b\u0259bd\u0259n, \u0130lahi qovu\u015fma \u0259ld\u0259 etm\u0259k ist\u0259y\u0259n h\u0259r k\u0259s inanan \u0130brahimin inanc\u0131na sahib olmal\u0131d\u0131r, y\u0259ni bir xristian o\u011flunun Tanr\u0131 \u00f6vlad\u0131 olmas\u0131 \u00fc\u00e7\u00fcn atan\u0131n m\u00fcjd\u0259 mesaj\u0131na inand\u0131\u011f\u0131 \u015f\u0259kild\u0259 m\u00fctl\u0259q inanmal\u0131d\u0131r.<\/p>\n<p style=\"padding-left: 40px\"><strong>\u201cO zaman bilin ki, iman g\u0259tir\u0259nl\u0259r \u0130brahimin \u00f6vladlar\u0131d\u0131r\u201d<\/strong> (Qal. 3: 7).<\/p>\n<p>Yaln\u0131z Tanr\u0131n\u0131n k\u0259lam\u0131 olan \u00e7\u00fcr\u00fcm\u0259z toxumdan yarananlar Tanr\u0131n\u0131n \u00f6vladlar\u0131d\u0131r, y\u0259ni xristianlar\u0131n \u00f6vladlar\u0131 m\u00fctl\u0259q Tanr\u0131n\u0131n \u00f6vladlar\u0131 deyill\u0259r.<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<h2><span class=\"ez-toc-section\" id=\"Kils%C9%99_M%C9%99sihin_b%C9%99d%C9%99nidir\"><\/span><span style=\"text-decoration: underline\"><strong>Kils\u0259 M\u0259sihin b\u0259d\u0259nidir<\/strong><\/span><span class=\"ez-toc-section-end\"><\/span><\/h2>\n<p>\u0130kincisi, b\u00fct\u00fcn xristianlar bir kils\u0259 d\u0259 adland\u0131r\u0131lan M\u0259sihin b\u0259d\u0259ninin ail\u0259 v\u0259 kils\u0259 kimi insan institutlar\u0131 il\u0259 qar\u0131\u015fd\u0131r\u0131la bilm\u0259y\u0259c\u0259yinin f\u0259rqind\u0259 olmal\u0131d\u0131rlar. Bir insan t\u0259\u015fkilat\u0131n\u0131n bir hiss\u0259si olmaq insan\u0131 M\u0259sihin b\u0259d\u0259nin\u0259 aid etmir, y\u0259ni xilas olur.<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<h2><span class=\"ez-toc-section\" id=\"T%C9%99hsil_verm%C9%99k_m%C9%99suliyy%C9%99ti\"><\/span><span style=\"text-decoration: underline\"><strong>T\u0259hsil verm\u0259k m\u0259suliyy\u0259ti<\/strong><\/span><span class=\"ez-toc-section-end\"><\/span><\/h2>\n<p>Bir c\u0259miyy\u0259tin \u00fczv\u00fc olaraq, xristian valideynl\u0259r u\u015faqlar\u0131na t\u0259hsil verm\u0259lidirl\u0259r v\u0259 bel\u0259 bir ittiham\u0131 kils\u0259y\u0259 v\u0259 ya ba\u015fqa bir t\u0259\u015fkilata qoymamal\u0131s\u0131n\u0131z. Bu c\u00fcr v\u0259zif\u0259 yaln\u0131z v\u0259 yaln\u0131z valideynl\u0259r\u0259 aiddir. Valideynl\u0259r yoxdursa, bu v\u0259zif\u0259 bu rolu oynayan ba\u015fqa bir \u015f\u0259xs\u0259 verilm\u0259lidir: n\u0259n\u0259, baba, \u0259mi v\u0259 ya son \u00e7ar\u0259 olaraq c\u0259miyy\u0259tin qurdu\u011fu bir m\u00fc\u0259ssis\u0259 (u\u015faq evi).<\/p>\n<p>Niy\u0259 u\u015faq b\u00f6y\u00fctm\u0259k missiyas\u0131 h\u0259val\u0259 edil\u0259 bilm\u0259z? \u00c7\u00fcnki normall\u0131q daxilind\u0259 valideynl\u0259r bir f\u0259rdin h\u0259yat\u0131n\u0131n ilk ill\u0259rind\u0259 \u0259n yax\u015f\u0131 v\u0259 \u0259n b\u00f6y\u00fck g\u00fcv\u0259n\u0259 sahib insanlard\u0131r. Bu g\u00fcv\u0259n m\u00fcnasib\u0259tin\u0259 \u0259saslanaraq ail\u0259 institutu m\u0259suliyy\u0259tli bir v\u0259t\u0259nda\u015f yeti\u015fdirm\u0259k \u00fc\u00e7\u00fcn b\u00fct\u00fcn testl\u0259rin apar\u0131ld\u0131\u011f\u0131 bir laboratoriyaya \u00e7evrilir.<\/p>\n<p>S\u0259lahiyy\u0259t v\u0259 m\u0259suliyy\u0259tin n\u0259 oldu\u011funu ail\u0259 daxilind\u0259 \u00f6yr\u0259nir. Qarda\u015fl\u0131q, dostluq, inam, h\u00f6rm\u0259t, sevgi v\u0259 s. Kimi insan m\u00fcnasib\u0259tl\u0259ri ail\u0259 daxilind\u0259 \u00f6yr\u0259nilir v\u0259 inki\u015faf etdirilir.<\/p>\n<p>Valideynl\u0259r \u0259n yax\u015f\u0131 v\u0259 \u0259n etibarl\u0131 \u0259laq\u0259y\u0259 sahib olduqlar\u0131 \u00fc\u00e7\u00fcn, eyni zamanda t\u0259hsil prosesi zaman\u0131 u\u015faqlara M\u0259sihin m\u00fcjd\u0259sini t\u0259qdim etm\u0259k \u00fc\u00e7\u00fcn \u0259n yax\u015f\u0131lar\u0131d\u0131r. Buna g\u00f6r\u0259, valideynl\u0259rin \u00f6vladlar\u0131na kinli v\u0259 kinli bir Tanr\u0131 t\u0259qdim etm\u0259m\u0259si \u00e7ox vacibdir. B\u0259nz\u0259r ifad\u0259l\u0259r:<em> \u201c- Bunu etm\u0259, \u00e7\u00fcnki ata bunu b\u0259y\u0259nmir! V\u0259 ya, &#8211; bunu ets\u0259n, Allah c\u0259zaland\u0131r\u0131r! \u201d<\/em>, M\u00fcjd\u0259nin h\u0259qiq\u0259tini \u0259ks etdirmir v\u0259 u\u015fa\u011f\u0131n anlay\u0131\u015f\u0131na \u00e7ox b\u00f6y\u00fck ziyan vurur.<\/p>\n<p>M\u00fcjd\u0259nin Allahla insanlar aras\u0131nda qurdu\u011fu \u0259laq\u0259l\u0259r etibar v\u0259 s\u0259daq\u0259tl\u0259 idar\u0259 olunur. Kinli v\u0259 kinli birin\u0259 g\u00fcv\u0259nm\u0259k m\u00fcmk\u00fcnd\u00fcrm\u00fc? Xeyr! \u0130ndi bir g\u0259ncin Tanr\u0131ya etibar etm\u0259si nec\u0259 m\u00fcmk\u00fcnd\u00fcr, \u0259g\u0259r ona t\u0259qdim edil\u0259nl\u0259r m\u00fcjd\u0259nin h\u0259qiq\u0259ti il\u0259 uy\u011fun g\u0259lmirs\u0259?<\/p>\n<p>Valideynl\u0259r \u00f6vladlar\u0131na b\u0259zi davran\u0131\u015flara tolere edilm\u0259diyini n\u00fcmayi\u015f etdirm\u0259lidirl\u0259r, \u00e7\u00fcnki ata v\u0259 ana effektiv \u015f\u0259kild\u0259 r\u0259dd edirl\u0259r. Bu c\u00fcr m\u00fcnasib\u0259tl\u0259rin ata v\u0259 ana t\u0259r\u0259find\u0259n faktiki olaraq qada\u011fan edildiyi. Bu c\u00fcr davran\u0131\u015f\u0131n z\u0259r\u0259rli olmas\u0131 v\u0259 b\u00fct\u00fcn c\u0259miyy\u0259tin d\u0259 xo\u015funa g\u0259lm\u0259m\u0259si.<\/p>\n<p>\u00d6vlad\u0131n\u0131za, h\u0259r hans\u0131 bir pis r\u0259ftara g\u00f6r\u0259 sizi c\u0259zaland\u0131rma\u011fa haz\u0131r olan k\u00fcsk\u00fcn, \u0259s\u0259bi bir Tanr\u0131 h\u0259diyy\u0259 etm\u0259yin. Valideynl\u0259rin bu c\u00fcr davran\u0131\u015flar\u0131 bir m\u00fc\u0259llim kimi m\u0259suliyy\u0259tl\u0259rind\u0259n yay\u0131nd\u0131qlar\u0131n\u0131 a\u00e7\u0131q \u015f\u0259kild\u0259 n\u00fcmayi\u015f etdirir.<\/p>\n<p>Tanr\u0131, kils\u0259, ke\u015fi\u015f, kahin, \u015feytan, c\u0259h\u0259nn\u0259m, polis, qara \u00fczl\u00fc \u00f6k\u00fcz v\u0259 s.-l\u0259rin c\u0259llad v\u0259 ya c\u0259za kimi bir qorxu \u0259laq\u0259si quraraq u\u015faqlar\u0131 t\u0259rbiy\u0259 etm\u0259si, etm\u0259dikl\u0259ri ki\u015fil\u0259ri istehsal etm\u0259kl\u0259 n\u0259tic\u0259l\u0259nir. qurumlara h\u00f6rm\u0259t edin v\u0259 s\u0259lahiyy\u0259td\u0259n istifad\u0259 ed\u0259nl\u0259r\u0259 xor bax\u0131n. Bu t\u0259hsil n\u00f6v\u00fc, etibar \u0259laq\u0259si qurulmad\u0131\u011f\u0131ndan h\u00f6rm\u0259t \u0259v\u0259zin\u0259 qorxu yarad\u0131r. Qorxu ke\u00e7\u0259nd\u0259 art\u0131q ita\u0259t etm\u0259k \u00fc\u00e7\u00fcn he\u00e7 bir s\u0259b\u0259b qalm\u0131r.<\/p>\n<p>\u00d6vladlar\u0131na t\u0259hsil ver\u0259rk\u0259n bu \u015f\u0259kild\u0259 h\u0259r\u0259k\u0259t ed\u0259n valideynl\u0259r, u\u015faqlar\u0131n\u0131 yan\u0131ltmaqda g\u00fcnah pay\u0131 var. Kils\u0259nin d\u0259 pay\u0131 var, \u00e7\u00fcnki valideynl\u0259rini \u00f6vladlar\u0131n\u0131n t\u0259hsili \u00fc\u00e7\u00fcn yegan\u0259 v\u0259 qanuni m\u0259sul \u015f\u0259xs olaraq t\u0259yin ed\u0259 bilm\u0259di. D\u00f6vl\u0259t h\u0259m d\u0259 g\u00fcnahkard\u0131r, \u00e7\u00fcnki t\u0259rbiy\u0259\u00e7i rolunu \u00f6z \u00fcz\u0259rin\u0259 g\u00f6t\u00fcr\u00fcr, \u0259slind\u0259 is\u0259 yaln\u0131z biliyin \u00f6t\u00fcr\u00fclm\u0259si \u00fc\u00e7\u00fcn bir vasit\u0259dir.<\/p>\n<p>T\u0259hsilin \u0259saslar\u0131 ail\u0259 daxilind\u0259 t\u0259svir olunmasa v\u0259 ail\u0259 m\u00fcnasib\u0259tl\u0259rind\u0259 t\u0259tbiq olunan v\u0259 ya\u015fanm\u0131\u015f bu c\u00fcr anlay\u0131\u015flar varsa, kils\u0259 v\u0259 d\u00f6vl\u0259t kimi h\u0259r hans\u0131 dig\u0259r insan institutu iflasa m\u0259hkum olacaqd\u0131r.<\/p>\n<p>Bir \u00e7ox valideynl\u0259r i\u015fl\u0259m\u0259k, oxumaq v\u0259 kils\u0259y\u0259 m\u00fcraci\u0259t edirl\u0259r, lakin \u00f6vladlar\u0131n\u0131n t\u0259hsilin\u0259 vaxt ay\u0131rm\u0131rlar. U\u015faqlar\u0131n t\u0259hsili tam vaxtda ba\u015f verir v\u0259 bu vaxt\u0131 laqeyd yana\u015fmaq sa\u011flam deyil.<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<h2><span class=\"ez-toc-section\" id=\"T%C9%99hsil%C9%99_n%C9%99_vaxt_baslayacaqsiniz\"><\/span><span style=\"text-decoration: underline\"><strong>T\u0259hsil\u0259 n\u0259 vaxt ba\u015flayacaqs\u0131n\u0131z?<\/strong><\/span><span class=\"ez-toc-section-end\"><\/span><\/h2>\n<p>U\u015faqlar \u00fc\u00e7\u00fcn narahatl\u0131q \u00fcmumiyy\u0259tl\u0259 yaln\u0131z xristian valideynl\u0259r \u00f6vladlar\u0131n\u0131n kils\u0259 t\u0259\u015fkilat\u0131ndan uzaqla\u015fd\u0131qlar\u0131n\u0131 hiss etdikd\u0259 ortaya \u00e7\u0131x\u0131r. U\u015faqlar\u0131 kils\u0259y\u0259 getm\u0259y\u0259 m\u0259cbur etm\u0259k, t\u0259tbiqetm\u0259 v\u0259 m\u0259cburetm\u0259 \u00fc\u00e7\u00fcn qorxulu m\u00fcraci\u0259tl\u0259r. Bel\u0259 bir m\u00fcnasib\u0259t u\u015fa\u011fa laz\u0131mi vaxtda t\u0259limat verm\u0259m\u0259kd\u0259n daha s\u0259hvdir.<\/p>\n<p>Bu suallar b\u0259zi xristian valideynl\u0259ri qorxudur, \u00e7\u00fcnki c\u0259miyy\u0259tin \u00fczv\u00fc kimi rollar\u0131n\u0131n n\u0259 oldu\u011funu v\u0259 m\u00fcjd\u0259nin s\u0259firi kimi v\u0259zif\u0259l\u0259rinin n\u0259 oldu\u011funu bilmirl\u0259r. Xristian valideynl\u0259r bu iki funksiyan\u0131 qar\u0131\u015fd\u0131ra bilm\u0259zl\u0259r.<\/p>\n<p>Xristian valideynl\u0259rin iki f\u0259rqli missiyas\u0131 var:<\/p>\n<p style=\"padding-left: 40px\">a) \u00f6vladlar\u0131n\u0131 c\u0259miyy\u0259tin \u00fczv\u00fc kimi yeti\u015fdirm\u0259k v\u0259;<\/p>\n<p style=\"padding-left: 40px\">b) \u0130ncild\u0259n he\u00e7 vaxt uzaqla\u015fmamalar\u0131 \u00fc\u00e7\u00fcn u\u015faqlara m\u00fcjd\u0259nin g\u00f6z\u0259l v\u0259dl\u0259rini elan edin.<\/p>\n<p>Bu v\u0259zif\u0259l\u0259r, erk\u0259n ya\u015flar\u0131ndan, bir v\u0259t\u0259nda\u015f\u0131n t\u0259hsili v\u0259 t\u0259hsili il\u0259 eyni vaxtda m\u0259\u015f\u011ful olmaq \u00fc\u00e7\u00fcn qay\u011f\u0131 g\u00f6st\u0259r\u0259r\u0259k, h\u0259qiq\u0259t s\u00f6z\u00fcn\u00fcn t\u0259drisini laqeyd etm\u0259d\u0259n, Tanr\u0131 sevgisini v\u0259 sadiqliyini vur\u011fulamaqla h\u0259yata ke\u00e7irilm\u0259lidir.<\/p>\n<p>G\u0259nc ya\u015flar\u0131ndan u\u015fa\u011fa s\u0259lahiyy\u0259t sahibl\u0259rin\u0259 h\u00f6rm\u0259t g\u00f6st\u0259rm\u0259yi \u00f6yr\u0259tm\u0259k laz\u0131md\u0131r v\u0259 valideynl\u0259r vasit\u0259si il\u0259 u\u015fa\u011fa hakimiyy\u0259t\u0259 tabe olmaq \u00fc\u00e7\u00fcn t\u0259tbiq olunacaqd\u0131r. U\u015faq bac\u0131-qarda\u015flar\u0131, n\u0259n\u0259 v\u0259 bac\u0131lar\u0131 say\u0259sind\u0259 h\u00f6rm\u0259t v\u0259 mehribanl\u0131\u011f\u0131 \u00f6yr\u0259n\u0259c\u0259kdir. U\u015faqlar, dostlar, m\u00fc\u0259lliml\u0259r, qon\u015fular v\u0259 yad insanlar kimi d\u00fcnya il\u0259 m\u00fcnasib\u0259tl\u0259ri \u00f6yr\u0259n\u0259c\u0259kdir.<\/p>\n<p>\u0130ncil haqq\u0131nda n\u0259 dem\u0259k olar? M\u00fcq\u0259dd\u0259s Kitab n\u0259yi t\u00f6vsiy\u0259 edir? Qanunun t\u0259krar\u0131 il\u0259 a\u015fa\u011f\u0131dak\u0131lar\u0131 oxuyuruq:<strong>\u00a0\u201cOnlar\u0131 \u00f6vladlar\u0131n\u0131za \u00f6yr\u0259d\u0259c\u0259k v\u0259 evinizd\u0259 oturark\u0259n, yolda ged\u0259rk\u0259n, uzan\u0131b qalxark\u0259n onlardan dan\u0131\u015facaqs\u0131n\u0131z\u201d<\/strong> (Qanun 6: 7). H\u0259yat t\u0259rzi haqq\u0131nda u\u015fa\u011fa h\u0259r zaman, y\u0259ni evd\u0259, yolda, yatark\u0259n v\u0259 qalxark\u0259n t\u0259limat verilm\u0259lidir.<\/p>\n<p>M\u00fcq\u0259dd\u0259s \u2018m\u0259ktublar\u0131n\u2019 t\u0259limat\u0131 valideynl\u0259rin m\u0259suliyy\u0259tidir! Bazar g\u00fcn\u00fc m\u00fc\u0259llimin\u0259 bel\u0259 bir funksiyan\u0131n h\u0259val\u0259 edilm\u0259si ay\u0259l\u0259r t\u0259r\u0259find\u0259n t\u00f6vsiy\u0259 edilmir, \u00fcst\u0259lik M\u0259sihl\u0259 ba\u011fl\u0131 t\u0259dris m\u00fcdd\u0259tini h\u0259ft\u0259d\u0259 bir d\u0259f\u0259, yaln\u0131z bir saat m\u00fcdd\u0259tind\u0259 m\u0259hdudla\u015fd\u0131r\u0131r. Kitab\u0131n t\u00f6vsiy\u0259 etdiyi il\u0259 tamamil\u0259 f\u0259rqli: g\u00fcnd\u0259lik t\u0259dris.<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<h2><span class=\"ez-toc-section\" id=\"Usaqlar_v%C9%99_c%C9%99miyy%C9%99t\"><\/span><span style=\"text-decoration: underline\"><strong>U\u015faqlar v\u0259 c\u0259miyy\u0259t <\/strong><\/span><span class=\"ez-toc-section-end\"><\/span><\/h2>\n<p>Valideynl\u0259r u\u015faqlar\u0131n ham\u0131n\u0131n valideynl\u0259r\u0259 v\u0259 c\u0259miyy\u0259t\u0259 ita\u0259t etm\u0259 borcu oldu\u011funu anlamalar\u0131na k\u00f6m\u0259k etm\u0259lidirl\u0259r. Bu g\u00fcn valideynl\u0259r\u0259 t\u0259slim olmaq h\u0259m m\u0259kt\u0259bd\u0259, h\u0259m d\u0259 i\u015fd\u0259 c\u0259miyy\u0259t t\u0259r\u0259find\u0259n t\u0259l\u0259b edil\u0259c\u0259k bir in\u015fa v\u0259 \u015fagirdlikdir.<\/p>\n<p>T\u0259limat verildikd\u0259n sonra, g\u0259nc M\u0259sihin m\u00fcjd\u0259sini izl\u0259m\u0259k ist\u0259m\u0259s\u0259 bel\u0259, m\u00fc\u0259yy\u0259n sosial d\u0259y\u0259rl\u0259r\u0259 sadiq bir v\u0259t\u0259nda\u015f\u0131m\u0131z olacaq.<\/p>\n<p>Bu g\u00fcn xristianlar\u0131n u\u015faqlar\u0131n\u0131n t\u0259hsilind\u0259ki aktual probleml\u0259rd\u0259n biri d\u0259 ail\u0259 t\u0259hsili il\u0259 kils\u0259nin qar\u0131\u015fd\u0131r\u0131lmas\u0131d\u0131r. Sosial-m\u0259d\u0259ni d\u0259y\u0259rl\u0259rin \u00f6t\u00fcr\u00fclm\u0259si m\u0259suliyy\u0259tini kils\u0259y\u0259 h\u0259val\u0259 etm\u0259k b\u00f6y\u00fck bir s\u0259hvdir. G\u0259nc insan b\u00f6y\u00fcd\u00fckd\u0259 v\u0259 qurum i\u00e7ind\u0259ki b\u0259zi insanlardan m\u0259yus olduqda, qat\u0131ld\u0131\u011f\u0131 icma \u00fczvl\u00fcy\u00fcnd\u0259n uzaqla\u015f\u0131r v\u0259 eyni zamanda h\u0259r c\u00fcr v\u0259 h\u0259r n\u00f6v sosial d\u0259y\u0259rl\u0259r\u0259 qar\u015f\u0131 \u00fcsyan edir.<\/p>\n<p>Valideynl\u0259r Allah \u00fc\u00e7\u00fcn \u00f6vlad yaratmad\u0131qlar\u0131n\u0131n f\u0259rqind\u0259 olduqda, daha \u00e7ox u\u015faqlar\u0131n t\u0259hsili v\u0259 m\u00fcjd\u0259l\u0259nm\u0259si \u00fc\u00e7\u00fcn t\u0259tbiq edirl\u0259r. H\u0259m d\u0259 tumurcuqlar\u0131n\u0131n kils\u0259y\u0259 getm\u0259k h\u0259v\u0259sind\u0259 olmad\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131 g\u00f6rd\u00fckd\u0259 \u00fcmidl\u0259rini k\u0259smirl\u0259r. B\u0259zi institusional m\u0259s\u0259l\u0259l\u0259ri h\u0259ll etm\u0259dikl\u0259ri zaman u\u015faqlar\u0131 \u00fc\u00e7\u00fcn g\u00fcnahkar v\u0259 ya m\u0259suliyy\u0259tli hiss etm\u0259y\u0259c\u0259kl\u0259r.<\/p>\n<p>Sosial d\u0259y\u0259rl\u0259ri \u00f6t\u00fcrm\u0259yi v\u0259 a\u015f\u0131lama\u011f\u0131 unutmadan, Allah\u0131n k\u0259lam\u0131n\u0131 \u00f6yr\u0259tm\u0259kl\u0259 u\u015faqlar\u0131 yeti\u015fdirm\u0259k laz\u0131md\u0131r. T\u0259hsil\u0259 s\u00f6hb\u0259t, oyun, danlama, x\u0259b\u0259rdarl\u0131q v\u0259 s. U\u015faqlara u\u015faql\u0131qdan, g\u0259nclikd\u0259n v\u0259 g\u0259nclikd\u0259n ba\u015flayaraq h\u0259yat\u0131n b\u00fct\u00fcn m\u0259rh\u0259l\u0259l\u0259rini ya\u015fama\u011fa icaz\u0259 verin.<\/p>\n<p>B\u0259s u\u015faqlar kils\u0259d\u0259n uzaqla\u015fanda n\u0259 etm\u0259li? Birincisi, u\u015faqlar\u0131n m\u00fcjd\u0259d\u0259n uzaqla\u015fd\u0131qlar\u0131n\u0131 v\u0259 ya m\u00fc\u0259yy\u0259n bir qurumdan uzaqla\u015fd\u0131qlar\u0131n\u0131 ay\u0131rmaq laz\u0131md\u0131r.<\/p>\n<p>\u0130btidai m\u00fcjd\u0259 prinsipl\u0259rin\u0259 m\u0259h\u0259l qoymamaq, valideynl\u0259ri Tanr\u0131n\u0131n \u00f6vlad\u0131 olmaq m\u0259nas\u0131n\u0131 m\u00fc\u0259yy\u0259n bir kils\u0259y\u0259 aid etm\u0259kl\u0259 qar\u0131\u015fd\u0131rma\u011fa m\u0259cbur edir. Bir u\u015faq art\u0131q kils\u0259d\u0259 m\u00fcnt\u0259z\u0259m deyils\u0259, ona azm\u0131\u015f kimi yaz\u0131lmamal\u0131 v\u0259 ya c\u0259h\u0259nn\u0259m\u0259 do\u011fru add\u0131mlad\u0131\u011f\u0131 v\u0259 s.<\/p>\n<p>Bir insan M\u00fcjd\u0259nin h\u0259qiq\u0259tini M\u00fcq\u0259dd\u0259s Yaz\u0131larda deyildiyi kimi q\u0259bul edirs\u0259, dem\u0259li, o, az\u011f\u0131n deyil, yaln\u0131z topla\u015fmaq laz\u0131m oldu\u011funu x\u0259b\u0259rdar etm\u0259lidir. Valideynl\u0259rin \u00f6vladlar\u0131n\u0131n dig\u0259r xristianlarla g\u00f6r\u00fc\u015fm\u0259k v\u0259rdi\u015fl\u0259rini niy\u0259 t\u0259rk etdikl\u0259rini ara\u015fd\u0131rmalar\u0131 laz\u0131m ola bil\u0259r.<\/p>\n<p>\u0130ndi o\u011ful m\u00fcjd\u0259nin h\u0259qiq\u0259tini q\u0259bul etmirs\u0259 v\u0259 v\u0259rdi\u015fin\u0259 g\u00f6r\u0259 toplanma\u011fa davam edirs\u0259, Allah qar\u015f\u0131s\u0131nda v\u0259ziyy\u0259ti narahatd\u0131r. \u0130ncil haqq\u0131nda n\u0259 bilir? M\u00fcjd\u0259nin inanc\u0131n\u0131 q\u0259bul edirmi? Cavab m\u0259nfi olarsa, M\u00fcjd\u0259nin h\u0259qiq\u0259tini elan etm\u0259k laz\u0131md\u0131r ki, yaln\u0131z bir kils\u0259 ziyar\u0259t\u00e7isini deyil, iman edib xilas ola bilsin.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>C\u0259miyy\u0259tin \u00fczvl\u0259ri olaraq, xristian valideynl\u0259r \u00f6vladlar\u0131na t\u0259hsil verm\u0259lidirl\u0259r v\u0259 bel\u0259 bir ittiham\u0131 kils\u0259y\u0259 v\u0259 ya ba\u015fqa bir t\u0259\u015fkilata qoymamal\u0131d\u0131rlar.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":108,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_acf_changed":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[1],"tags":[21,29,35,36],"class_list":["post-107","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-sem-categoria","tag-kils","tag-qurtulus","tag-usaqlar","tag-valideynlr"],"acf":[],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/estudobiblico.org\/az\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/107","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/estudobiblico.org\/az\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/estudobiblico.org\/az\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/estudobiblico.org\/az\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/estudobiblico.org\/az\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=107"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/estudobiblico.org\/az\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/107\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/estudobiblico.org\/az\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/108"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/estudobiblico.org\/az\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=107"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/estudobiblico.org\/az\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=107"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/estudobiblico.org\/az\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=107"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}