<\/span><\/h2>\nTr\u01b0\u1edbc h\u1ebft, m\u1ed7i C\u01a1 \u0111\u1ed1c nh\u00e2n ph\u1ea3i \u00fd th\u1ee9c r\u1eb1ng \u2018con c\u00e1i c\u1ee7a x\u00e1c th\u1ecbt kh\u00f4ng ph\u1ea3i l\u00e0 con c\u1ee7a \u0110\u1ee9c Ch\u00faa Tr\u1eddi\u2019. Gi\u1ed1ng? Con c\u1ee7a t\u00f4i, \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c sinh ra \u1edf n\u01a1i sinh theo \u0111\u1ea1o Tin l\u00e0nh v\u00e0 \/ ho\u1eb7c Tin l\u00e0nh, c\u00f3 ph\u1ea3i l\u00e0 con c\u1ee7a Ch\u00faa kh\u00f4ng?<\/p>\n
B\u00e2y gi\u1edd, n\u1ebfu \u2018con trai c\u1ee7a m\u1ed9t t\u00edn \u0111\u1ed3 l\u00e0 con c\u1ee7a \u0110\u1ee9c Ch\u00faa Tr\u1eddi\u2019, ch\u00fang ta s\u1ebd ph\u1ea3i \u0111\u1ed3ng \u00fd r\u1eb1ng t\u1ea5t c\u1ea3 con ch\u00e1u c\u1ee7a \u00c1p-ra-ham c\u0169ng l\u00e0 con c\u1ee7a \u0110\u1ee9c Ch\u00faa Tr\u1eddi, tuy nhi\u00ean, \u0111\u00e2y kh\u00f4ng ph\u1ea3i l\u00e0 \u0111i\u1ec1u Kinh Th\u00e1nh d\u1ea1y.<\/p>\n
S\u1ee9 \u0111\u1ed3 Phao-l\u00f4, vi\u1ebft th\u01b0 cho c\u00e1c t\u00edn \u0111\u1ed3 \u0111\u1ea1o \u0110\u1ea5ng Ki-t\u00f4 \u1edf R\u00f4-ma, n\u00f3i r\u00f5 r\u1eb1ng vi\u1ec7c tr\u1edf th\u00e0nh con ch\u00e1u c\u1ee7a \u00c1p-ra-ham kh\u00f4ng ph\u1ea3i l\u00e0 \u0111i\u1ec1u ban cho s\u1ef1 mong \u0111\u1ee3i c\u1ee7a \u0110\u1ee9c Ch\u00faa Tr\u1eddi\u00a0\u201cKh\u00f4ng ph\u1ea3i l\u1eddi \u0110\u1ee9c Ch\u00faa Tr\u1eddi thi\u1ebfu, v\u00ec kh\u00f4ng ph\u1ea3i t\u1ea5t c\u1ea3 nh\u1eefng ai \u0111\u1ebfn t\u1eeb Y-s\u01a1-ra-\u00ean \u0111\u1ec1u l\u00e0 d\u00e2n Y-s\u01a1-ra-\u00ean; Kh\u00f4ng ph\u1ea3i v\u00ec h\u1ecd l\u00e0 con ch\u00e1u c\u1ee7a \u00c1p-ra-ham, m\u00e0 \u0111\u1ec1u l\u00e0 con c\u00e1i\u201d<\/strong> (R\u00f4-ma 9: 6 -7).\u00a0\u201c\u2026 kh\u00f4ng ph\u1ea3i con c\u00e1i x\u00e1c th\u1ecbt l\u00e0 con \u0110\u1ee9c Ch\u00faa Tr\u1eddi, nh\u01b0ng con c\u00e1i c\u1ee7a l\u1eddi h\u1ee9a \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c k\u1ec3 l\u00e0 d\u00f2ng d\u00f5i\u201d<\/strong> (R\u00f4-ma 9: 8). B\u00e2y gi\u1edd, n\u1ebfu con c\u00e1i c\u1ee7a \u00c1p-ra-ham kh\u00f4ng ph\u1ea3i l\u00e0 con c\u1ee7a \u0110\u1ee9c Ch\u00faa Tr\u1eddi, th\u00ec con c\u1ee7a m\u1ed9t ng\u01b0\u1eddi tin Ch\u00faa c\u0169ng kh\u00f4ng ph\u1ea3i l\u00e0 con c\u1ee7a \u0110\u1ee9c Ch\u00faa Tr\u1eddi.<\/p>\nV\u00ec v\u1eady, b\u1ea5t c\u1ee9 ai mu\u1ed1n \u0111\u1ea1t \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c s\u1ef1 th\u00e1nh thi\u1ec7n ph\u1ea3i c\u00f3 c\u00f9ng \u0111\u1ee9c tin nh\u01b0 t\u00edn \u0111\u1ed3 m\u00e0 \u00c1p-ra-ham \u0111\u00e3 c\u00f3, t\u1ee9c l\u00e0 \u0111\u1ed1i v\u1edbi con trai c\u1ee7a m\u1ed9t C\u01a1-\u0111\u1ed1c nh\u00e2n l\u00e0 con c\u1ee7a \u0110\u1ee9c Ch\u00faa Tr\u1eddi, th\u00ec ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u00f3 nh\u1ea5t thi\u1ebft ph\u1ea3i tin theo c\u00f9ng m\u1ed9t c\u00e1ch m\u00e0 ng\u01b0\u1eddi cha \u0111\u00e3 tin trong s\u1ee9 \u0111i\u1ec7p ph\u00fac \u00e2m.<\/p>\n
\u201cV\u1eady, h\u00e3y bi\u1ebft r\u1eb1ng nh\u1eefng ai c\u00f3 \u0111\u1ee9c tin l\u00e0 con c\u00e1i c\u1ee7a \u00c1p-ra-ham\u201d<\/strong> (Ga-la-ti 3: 7).<\/p>\nCh\u1ec9 nh\u1eefng ai \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c t\u1ea1o ra nh\u1edd h\u1ea1t gi\u1ed1ng kh\u00f4ng th\u1ec3 li\u00eam khi\u1ebft, l\u00e0 l\u1eddi c\u1ee7a \u0110\u1ee9c Ch\u00faa Tr\u1eddi, m\u1edbi l\u00e0 con c\u1ee7a \u0110\u1ee9c Ch\u00faa Tr\u1eddi, t\u1ee9c l\u00e0 con c\u00e1i c\u1ee7a C\u01a1-\u0111\u1ed1c nh\u00e2n kh\u00f4ng nh\u1ea5t thi\u1ebft ph\u1ea3i l\u00e0 con c\u1ee7a \u0110\u1ee9c Ch\u00faa Tr\u1eddi.<\/p>\n
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<\/span>H\u1ed9i th\u00e1nh l\u00e0 th\u00e2n th\u1ec3 c\u1ee7a Ch\u00faa Kit\u00f4<\/strong><\/span><\/span><\/h2>\nTh\u1ee9 hai, t\u1ea5t c\u1ea3 c\u00e1c C\u01a1 \u0111\u1ed1c nh\u00e2n ph\u1ea3i \u00fd th\u1ee9c r\u1eb1ng th\u00e2n th\u1ec3 c\u1ee7a \u0110\u1ea5ng Christ, c\u00f2n \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c g\u1ecdi l\u00e0 H\u1ed9i th\u00e1nh, kh\u00f4ng th\u1ec3 b\u1ecb nh\u1ea7m l\u1eabn v\u1edbi c\u00e1c th\u1ec3 ch\u1ebf c\u1ee7a con ng\u01b0\u1eddi, ch\u1eb3ng h\u1ea1n nh\u01b0 gia \u0111\u00ecnh v\u00e0 H\u1ed9i th\u00e1nh. L\u00e0 m\u1ed9t ph\u1ea7n c\u1ee7a th\u1ec3 ch\u1ebf con ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00f4ng l\u00e0m cho con ng\u01b0\u1eddi thu\u1ed9c v\u1ec1 th\u00e2n th\u1ec3 c\u1ee7a \u0110\u1ea5ng Christ, ngh\u0129a l\u00e0 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c c\u1ee9u.<\/p>\n
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<\/span>Tr\u00e1ch nhi\u1ec7m gi\u00e1o d\u1ee5c<\/strong><\/span><\/span><\/h2>\nL\u00e0 m\u1ed9t th\u00e0nh vi\u00ean c\u1ee7a x\u00e3 h\u1ed9i, cha m\u1eb9 C\u01a1 \u0111\u1ed1c gi\u00e1o c\u1ea7n ph\u1ea3i gi\u00e1o d\u1ee5c con c\u00e1i c\u1ee7a h\u1ecd, v\u00e0 b\u1ea1n kh\u00f4ng n\u00ean \u0111\u1ec3 tr\u00e1ch nhi\u1ec7m \u0111\u00f3 cho nh\u00e0 th\u1edd, ho\u1eb7c b\u1ea5t k\u1ef3 t\u1ed5 ch\u1ee9c n\u00e0o kh\u00e1c. Nhi\u1ec7m v\u1ee5 nh\u01b0 v\u1eady l\u00e0 ho\u00e0n to\u00e0n v\u00e0 duy nh\u1ea5t c\u1ee7a cha m\u1eb9. N\u1ebfu cha m\u1eb9 v\u1eafng m\u1eb7t, nhi\u1ec7m v\u1ee5 n\u00e0y n\u00ean \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c chuy\u1ec3n giao cho m\u1ed9t ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c \u0111\u1ea3m nhi\u1ec7m vai tr\u00f2 n\u00e0y: \u00f4ng b\u00e0, ch\u00fa b\u00e1c, ho\u1eb7c ph\u01b0\u01a1ng s\u00e1ch cu\u1ed1i c\u00f9ng l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t t\u1ed5 ch\u1ee9c do x\u00e3 h\u1ed9i th\u00e0nh l\u1eadp (tr\u1ea1i tr\u1ebb m\u1ed3 c\u00f4i).<\/p>\n
T\u1ea1i sao kh\u00f4ng th\u1ec3 giao s\u1ee9 m\u1ec7nh nu\u00f4i d\u1ea1y con c\u00e1i? B\u1edfi v\u00ec trong th\u00f4ng th\u01b0\u1eddng, cha m\u1eb9 l\u00e0 nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi c\u00f3 ni\u1ec1m tin t\u1ed1t nh\u1ea5t v\u00e0 l\u1edbn nh\u1ea5t trong nh\u1eefng n\u0103m \u0111\u1ea7u \u0111\u1eddi c\u1ee7a m\u1ed9t c\u00e1 nh\u00e2n. D\u1ef1a tr\u00ean m\u1ed1i quan h\u1ec7 tin c\u1eady n\u00e0y, t\u1ed5 ch\u1ee9c gia \u0111\u00ecnh tr\u1edf th\u00e0nh m\u1ed9t ph\u00f2ng th\u00ed nghi\u1ec7m, n\u01a1i t\u1ea5t c\u1ea3 c\u00e1c th\u1eed nghi\u1ec7m \u0111\u1ec3 t\u1ea1o ra m\u1ed9t c\u00f4ng d\u00e2n c\u00f3 tr\u00e1ch nhi\u1ec7m \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c th\u1ef1c hi\u1ec7n.<\/p>\n
Ch\u00ednh trong gia \u0111\u00ecnh, ng\u01b0\u1eddi ta h\u1ecdc \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c th\u1ebf n\u00e0o l\u00e0 th\u1ea9m quy\u1ec1n v\u00e0 tr\u00e1ch nhi\u1ec7m. C\u00e1c m\u1ed1i quan h\u1ec7 c\u1ee7a con ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c h\u1ecdc h\u1ecfi v\u00e0 ph\u00e1t tri\u1ec3n trong gia \u0111\u00ecnh, ch\u1eb3ng h\u1ea1n nh\u01b0 t\u00ecnh anh em, t\u00ecnh b\u1ea1n, s\u1ef1 tin c\u1eady, s\u1ef1 t\u00f4n tr\u1ecdng, t\u00ecnh c\u1ea3m, v.v.<\/p>\n
L\u00e0 cha m\u1eb9 c\u00f3 m\u1ed1i quan h\u1ec7 t\u1ed1t nh\u1ea5t v\u00e0 \u0111\u00e1ng tin c\u1eady nh\u1ea5t, h\u1ecd c\u0169ng l\u00e0 nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi t\u1ed1t nh\u1ea5t \u0111\u1ec3 tr\u00ecnh b\u00e0y ph\u00fac \u00e2m c\u1ee7a \u0110\u1ea5ng Christ cho con c\u00e1i trong qu\u00e1 tr\u00ecnh gi\u00e1o d\u1ee5c. Do \u0111\u00f3, cha m\u1eb9 kh\u00f4ng n\u00ean cho con c\u00e1i c\u1ee7a h\u1ecd th\u1ea5y m\u1ed9t v\u1ecb th\u1ea7n th\u00f9 h\u1eadn v\u00e0 cay nghi\u1ec7t. Nh\u1eefng c\u1ee5m t\u1eeb nh\u01b0: \u201c- \u0110\u1eebng l\u00e0m \u0111i\u1ec1u n\u00e0y v\u00ec b\u1ed1 kh\u00f4ng th\u00edch n\u00f3! Ho\u1eb7c, – n\u1ebfu b\u1ea1n l\u00e0m \u0111i\u1ec1u n\u00e0y, Ch\u00faa s\u1ebd tr\u1eebng ph\u1ea1t!\u201d, Kh\u00f4ng ph\u1ea3n \u00e1nh s\u1ef1 th\u1eadt c\u1ee7a ph\u00fac \u00e2m v\u00e0 g\u00e2y ra thi\u1ec7t h\u1ea1i to l\u1edbn cho s\u1ef1 hi\u1ec3u bi\u1ebft c\u1ee7a \u0111\u1ee9a tr\u1ebb.<\/p>\n
M\u1ed1i quan h\u1ec7 m\u00e0 ph\u00fac \u00e2m thi\u1ebft l\u1eadp gi\u1eefa \u0110\u1ee9c Ch\u00faa Tr\u1eddi v\u00e0 lo\u00e0i ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c h\u01b0\u1edbng d\u1eabn b\u1edfi s\u1ef1 tin t\u01b0\u1edfng v\u00e0 trung t\u00edn. C\u00f3 th\u1ec3 tin m\u1ed9t ng\u01b0\u1eddi cay \u0111\u1ed9c v\u00e0 th\u00f9 dai kh\u00f4ng? Kh\u00f4ng ph\u1ea3i! B\u00e2y gi\u1edd, l\u00e0m sao m\u1ed9t ng\u01b0\u1eddi tr\u1ebb c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 tin c\u1eady \u0110\u1ee9c Ch\u00faa Tr\u1eddi, n\u1ebfu nh\u1eefng g\u00ec \u0111\u00e3 tr\u00ecnh b\u00e0y v\u1edbi anh ta kh\u00f4ng ph\u00f9 h\u1ee3p v\u1edbi l\u1ebd th\u1eadt c\u1ee7a ph\u00fac \u00e2m?<\/p>\n
Cha m\u1eb9 c\u1ea7n ch\u1ee9ng minh cho con c\u00e1i th\u1ea5y m\u1ed9t s\u1ed1 h\u00e0nh vi kh\u00f4ng \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c dung th\u1ee9 v\u00ec cha v\u00e0 m\u1eb9 kh\u00f4ng ch\u1ea5p thu\u1eadn. Nh\u1eefng th\u00e1i \u0111\u1ed9 nh\u01b0 v\u1eady b\u1ecb cha v\u00e0 m\u1eb9 nghi\u00eam c\u1ea5m. H\u00e0nh vi \u0111\u00f3 c\u00f3 h\u1ea1i v\u00e0 c\u1ea3 x\u00e3 h\u1ed9i c\u0169ng ph\u1ea3n \u0111\u1ed1i.<\/p>\n
\u0110\u1eebng cho con b\u1ea1n th\u1ea5y m\u1ed9t v\u1ecb Ch\u00faa \u0111ang b\u1ef1c b\u1ed9i, lo l\u1eafng, \u0110\u1ea5ng s\u1eb5n s\u00e0ng tr\u1eebng ph\u1ea1t b\u1ea1n v\u00ec b\u1ea5t k\u1ef3 h\u00e0nh vi sai tr\u00e1i n\u00e0o. H\u00e0nh vi nh\u01b0 v\u1eady c\u1ee7a c\u00e1c b\u1eadc ph\u1ee5 huynh r\u00f5 r\u00e0ng l\u00e0 h\u1ecd \u0111ang tr\u1ed1n tr\u00e1nh tr\u00e1ch nhi\u1ec7m c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh v\u1edbi t\u01b0 c\u00e1ch l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t nh\u00e0 gi\u00e1o d\u1ee5c.<\/p>\n
Gi\u00e1o d\u1ee5c tr\u1ebb em b\u1eb1ng c\u00e1ch thi\u1ebft l\u1eadp m\u1ed1i quan h\u1ec7 s\u1ee3 h\u00e3i, c\u00f3 Ch\u00faa, nh\u00e0 th\u1edd, m\u1ee5c s\u01b0, linh m\u1ee5c, ma qu\u1ef7, \u0111\u1ecba ng\u1ee5c, c\u1ea3nh s\u00e1t, con b\u00f2 m\u1eb7t \u0111en, v.v., nh\u01b0 nh\u1eefng k\u1ebb h\u00e0nh quy\u1ebft ho\u1eb7c tr\u1eebng ph\u1ea1t, cu\u1ed1i c\u00f9ng s\u1ebd s\u1ea3n sinh ra nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u00e0n \u00f4ng m\u00e0 ch\u00fang kh\u00f4ng l\u00e0m t\u00f4n tr\u1ecdng th\u1ec3 ch\u1ebf v\u00e0 coi th\u01b0\u1eddng nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi th\u1ef1c thi quy\u1ec1n h\u00e0nh. Ki\u1ec3u gi\u00e1o d\u1ee5c n\u00e0y thi\u1ebft l\u1eadp s\u1ef1 s\u1ee3 h\u00e3i thay v\u00ec t\u00f4n tr\u1ecdng, v\u00ec m\u1ed1i quan h\u1ec7 c\u1ee7a s\u1ef1 tin t\u01b0\u1edfng kh\u00f4ng \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c thi\u1ebft l\u1eadp. Khi n\u1ed7i s\u1ee3 h\u00e3i qua \u0111i, kh\u00f4ng c\u00f2n l\u00fd do g\u00ec \u0111\u1ec3 tu\u00e2n theo.<\/p>\n
Nh\u1eefng b\u1eadc cha m\u1eb9 h\u00e0nh \u0111\u1ed9ng theo c\u00e1ch n\u00e0y khi gi\u00e1o d\u1ee5c con c\u00e1i \u0111\u1ec1u c\u00f3 ph\u1ea7n m\u1eb7c c\u1ea3m khi l\u00e0m con c\u00e1i h\u1ecd hi\u1ec3u l\u1ea7m. Nh\u00e0 th\u1edd c\u0169ng c\u00f3 ph\u1ea7n c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh, v\u00ec h\u1ecd \u0111\u00e3 th\u1ea5t b\u1ea1i trong vi\u1ec7c ch\u1ec9 \u0111\u1ecbnh c\u00e1c b\u1eadc cha m\u1eb9 l\u00e0 ng\u01b0\u1eddi ch\u1ecbu tr\u00e1ch nhi\u1ec7m ch\u00ednh \u0111\u00e1ng v\u00e0 duy nh\u1ea5t trong vi\u1ec7c gi\u00e1o d\u1ee5c con c\u00e1i c\u1ee7a h\u1ecd. Nh\u00e0 n\u01b0\u1edbc c\u0169ng c\u00f3 t\u1ed9i, v\u00ec n\u00f3 \u0111\u1ea3m nh\u1eadn vai tr\u00f2 c\u1ee7a nh\u00e0 gi\u00e1o d\u1ee5c, trong khi tr\u00ean th\u1ef1c t\u1ebf, n\u00f3 ch\u1ec9 l\u00e0 ph\u01b0\u01a1ng ti\u1ec7n truy\u1ec1n t\u1ea3i ki\u1ebfn \u200b\u200bth\u1ee9c.<\/p>\n
N\u1ebfu c\u00e1c n\u1ec1n t\u1ea3ng c\u1ee7a gi\u00e1o d\u1ee5c kh\u00f4ng \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c ph\u00e2n \u0111\u1ecbnh trong gia \u0111\u00ecnh, v\u00e0 nh\u1eefng kh\u00e1i ni\u1ec7m \u0111\u00f3 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c \u00e1p d\u1ee5ng v\u00e0 tr\u1ea3i nghi\u1ec7m trong c\u00e1c m\u1ed1i quan h\u1ec7 gia \u0111\u00ecnh, th\u00ec b\u1ea5t k\u1ef3 th\u1ec3 ch\u1ebf nh\u00e2n v\u0103n n\u00e0o kh\u00e1c, ch\u1eb3ng h\u1ea1n nh\u01b0 nh\u00e0 th\u1edd v\u00e0 nh\u00e0 n\u01b0\u1edbc, s\u1ebd th\u1ea5t b\u1ea1i.<\/p>\n
Nhi\u1ec1u b\u1eadc cha m\u1eb9 \u00e1p d\u1ee5ng m\u00ecnh v\u00e0o c\u00f4ng vi\u1ec7c, h\u1ecdc t\u1eadp v\u00e0 nh\u00e0 th\u1edd, tuy nhi\u00ean, h\u1ecd kh\u00f4ng \u0111\u1ea7u t\u01b0 th\u1eddi gian v\u00e0o vi\u1ec7c h\u1ecdc c\u1ee7a con c\u00e1i. Vi\u1ec7c h\u1ecdc h\u00e0nh c\u1ee7a con c\u00e1i di\u1ec5n ra to\u00e0n th\u1eddi gian v\u00e0 vi\u1ec7c b\u1ecf b\u00ea th\u1eddi gian n\u00e0y l\u00e0 kh\u00f4ng l\u00e0nh m\u1ea1nh.<\/p>\n
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<\/span>Khi n\u00e0o th\u00ec b\u1eaft \u0111\u1ea7u gi\u00e1o d\u1ee5c?<\/strong><\/span><\/span><\/h2>\nM\u1ed1i quan t\u00e2m \u0111\u1ed1i v\u1edbi con c\u00e1i th\u01b0\u1eddng ch\u1ec9 n\u1ea3y sinh khi c\u00e1c b\u1eadc cha m\u1eb9 theo \u0111\u1ea1o C\u01a1 \u0111\u1ed1c c\u1ea3m th\u1ea5y r\u1eb1ng con c\u00e1i h\u1ecd \u0111ang xa r\u1eddi t\u1ed5 ch\u1ee9c nh\u00e0 th\u1edd. S\u1ee3 h\u00e3i k\u00eau g\u1ecdi s\u1ef1 \u00e1p \u0111\u1eb7t, \u00e9p bu\u1ed9c, \u00e9p bu\u1ed9c tr\u1ebb em \u0111i l\u1ec5. Th\u00e1i \u0111\u1ed9 nh\u01b0 v\u1eady c\u00f2n sai l\u1ea7m h\u01a1n l\u00e0 \u0111\u00e3 kh\u00f4ng h\u01b0\u1edbng d\u1eabn tr\u1ebb \u0111\u00fang l\u00fac.<\/p>\n
Nh\u1eefng c\u00e2u h\u1ecfi n\u00e0y khi\u1ebfn m\u1ed9t s\u1ed1 ph\u1ee5 huynh C\u01a1 \u0111\u1ed1c gi\u00e1o gi\u1eadt m\u00ecnh v\u00ec h\u1ecd kh\u00f4ng bi\u1ebft vai tr\u00f2 c\u1ee7a h\u1ecd v\u1edbi t\u01b0 c\u00e1ch l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t th\u00e0nh vi\u00ean trong x\u00e3 h\u1ed9i, v\u00e0 s\u1ee9 m\u1ec7nh c\u1ee7a h\u1ecd v\u1edbi t\u01b0 c\u00e1ch l\u00e0 \u0111\u1ea1i s\u1ee9 c\u1ee7a ph\u00fac \u00e2m. C\u00e1c b\u1eadc cha m\u1eb9 theo \u0111\u1ea1o thi\u00ean ch\u00faa kh\u00f4ng th\u1ec3 tr\u1ed9n l\u1eabn hai ch\u1ee9c n\u0103ng n\u00e0y.<\/p>\n
C\u00e1c b\u1eadc cha m\u1eb9 t\u00edn \u0111\u1ed3 \u0111\u1ea1o \u0110\u1ea5ng Ki-t\u00f4 c\u00f3 hai s\u1ee9 m\u1ec7nh r\u1ea5t kh\u00e1c nhau:<\/p>\n
a) gi\u00e1o d\u1ee5c con c\u00e1i tr\u1edf th\u00e0nh th\u00e0nh vi\u00ean c\u1ee7a x\u00e3 h\u1ed9i, v\u00e0;<\/p>\n
b) loan b\u00e1o nh\u1eefng l\u1eddi h\u1ee9a tuy\u1ec7t v\u1eddi c\u1ee7a ph\u00fac \u00e2m cho tr\u1ebb em \u0111\u1ec3 ch\u00fang kh\u00f4ng bao gi\u1edd l\u1ea1c \u0111\u1ea1o.<\/p>\n
Nh\u1eefng s\u1ee9 m\u1ec7nh n\u00e0y ph\u1ea3i \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c th\u1ef1c hi\u1ec7n ngay t\u1eeb khi c\u00f2n nh\u1ecf, ch\u00fa \u00fd gi\u1ea3i quy\u1ebft \u0111\u1ed3ng th\u1eddi v\u1edbi vi\u1ec7c gi\u00e1o d\u1ee5c v\u00e0 \u0111\u00e0o t\u1ea1o m\u1ed9t c\u00f4ng d\u00e2n, m\u00e0 kh\u00f4ng b\u1ecf qua vi\u1ec7c gi\u1ea3ng d\u1ea1y l\u1eddi ch\u00e2n l\u00fd, nh\u1ea5n m\u1ea1nh \u0111\u1ebfn t\u00ecnh y\u00eau th\u01b0\u01a1ng v\u00e0 s\u1ef1 th\u00e0nh t\u00edn c\u1ee7a \u0110\u1ee9c Ch\u00faa Tr\u1eddi.<\/p>\n
Ngay t\u1eeb khi c\u00f2n nh\u1ecf, \u0111\u1ee9a tr\u1ebb ph\u1ea3i \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c d\u1ea1y t\u00f4n tr\u1ecdng nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi c\u00f3 th\u1ea9m quy\u1ec1n, v\u00e0 ch\u00ednh nh\u1edd cha m\u1eb9 m\u00e0 \u0111\u1ee9a tr\u1ebb s\u1ebd \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c th\u1ef1c hi\u1ec7n v\u1ec1 vi\u1ec7c ph\u1ee5c t\u00f9ng ch\u00ednh quy\u1ec1n. Th\u00f4ng qua anh ch\u1ecb em, \u00f4ng b\u00e0 v\u00e0 ch\u00fa b\u00e1c, \u0111\u1ee9a tr\u1ebb s\u1ebd h\u1ecdc \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c s\u1ef1 t\u00f4n tr\u1ecdng v\u00e0 \u0111\u1ee9c tin. Gi\u1ed1ng nh\u01b0 b\u1ea1n b\u00e8, gi\u00e1o vi\u00ean, h\u00e0ng x\u00f3m v\u00e0 nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi l\u1ea1, \u0111\u1ee9a tr\u1ebb s\u1ebd h\u1ecdc \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c c\u00e1c m\u1ed1i quan h\u1ec7 v\u1edbi th\u1ebf gi\u1edbi.<\/p>\n
C\u00f2n v\u1ec1 ph\u00fac \u00e2m? Kinh th\u00e1nh khuy\u00ean b\u1ea1n \u0111i\u1ec1u g\u00ec? Trong Ph\u1ee5c truy\u1ec1n lu\u1eadt l\u1ec7 k\u00fd, ch\u00fang ta \u0111\u1ecdc nh\u1eefng \u0111i\u1ec1u sau:\u00a0\u201cV\u00e0 b\u1ea1n s\u1ebd d\u1ea1y ch\u00fang cho con c\u00e1i c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n v\u00e0 n\u00f3i v\u1ec1 ch\u00fang khi ng\u1ed3i trong nh\u00e0, \u0111i d\u1ecdc con \u0111\u01b0\u1eddng, n\u1eb1m xu\u1ed1ng v\u00e0 \u0111\u1ee9ng d\u1eady\u201d<\/strong> (Ph\u1ee5c truy\u1ec1n Lu\u1eadt l\u1ec7 K\u00fd 6: 7). V\u1ec1 c\u00e1ch s\u1ed1ng, \u0111\u1ee9a tr\u1ebb ph\u1ea3i \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c h\u01b0\u1edbng d\u1eabn m\u1ecdi l\u00fac, t\u1ee9c l\u00e0 \u1edf nh\u00e0, tr\u00ean \u0111\u01b0\u1eddng \u0111i, khi \u0111i ng\u1ee7 v\u00e0 khi th\u1ee9c d\u1eady.<\/p>\nVi\u1ec7c d\u1ea1y d\u1ed7 nh\u1eefng \u2018con ch\u1eef\u2019 thi\u00eang li\u00eang l\u00e0 tr\u00e1ch nhi\u1ec7m c\u1ee7a cha m\u1eb9! Giao quy\u1ec1n nh\u01b0 v\u1eady cho gi\u00e1o vi\u00ean tr\u01b0\u1eddng Ch\u00faa nh\u1eadt kh\u00f4ng \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c th\u00e1nh th\u01b0 khuy\u1ebfn kh\u00edch, h\u01a1n n\u1eefa, n\u00f3 gi\u1edbi h\u1ea1n th\u1eddi gian gi\u1ea3ng d\u1ea1y v\u1ec1 \u0110\u1ea5ng Christ ch\u1ec9 m\u1ed9t l\u1ea7n m\u1ed9t tu\u1ea7n, trong kho\u1ea3ng th\u1eddi gian ch\u1ec9 m\u1ed9t gi\u1edd. Ho\u00e0n to\u00e0n kh\u00e1c v\u1edbi nh\u1eefng g\u00ec th\u00e1nh th\u01b0 khuy\u1ebfn c\u00e1o: gi\u1ea3ng d\u1ea1y h\u00e0ng ng\u00e0y.<\/p>\n
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<\/span>Tr\u1ebb em v\u00e0 x\u00e3 h\u1ed9i<\/strong><\/span><\/span><\/h2>\nCha m\u1eb9 c\u1ea7n gi\u00fap tr\u1ebb hi\u1ec3u r\u1eb1ng m\u1ecdi ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u1ec1u mang \u01a1n cha m\u1eb9 v\u00e0 x\u00e3 h\u1ed9i. S\u1ef1 ph\u1ee5c t\u00f9ng cha m\u1eb9 ng\u00e0y nay l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t b\u00e0i lu\u1eadn v\u00e0 m\u1ed9t b\u00e0i h\u1ecdc t\u1eadp \u0111\u1ec3 n\u1ed9p b\u00e0i s\u1ebd \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c x\u00e3 h\u1ed9i y\u00eau c\u1ea7u, c\u1ea3 \u1edf tr\u01b0\u1eddng v\u00e0 n\u01a1i l\u00e0m vi\u1ec7c.<\/p>\n
Sau khi \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c h\u01b0\u1edbng d\u1eabn, ngay c\u1ea3 khi ng\u01b0\u1eddi tr\u1ebb kh\u00f4ng mu\u1ed1n theo ph\u00fac \u00e2m c\u1ee7a \u0110\u1ea5ng Christ, ch\u00fang t\u00f4i s\u1ebd c\u00f3 m\u1ed9t c\u00f4ng d\u00e2n cam k\u1ebft v\u1edbi c\u00e1c gi\u00e1 tr\u1ecb x\u00e3 h\u1ed9i nh\u1ea5t \u0111\u1ecbnh.<\/p>\n
M\u1ed9t trong nh\u1eefng v\u1ea5n \u0111\u1ec1 th\u00edch h\u1ee3p trong vi\u1ec7c gi\u00e1o d\u1ee5c con c\u00e1i c\u1ee7a c\u00e1c C\u01a1 \u0111\u1ed1c nh\u00e2n ng\u00e0y nay l\u00e0 vi\u1ec7c k\u1ebft h\u1ee3p gi\u00e1o d\u1ee5c gia \u0111\u00ecnh v\u1edbi nh\u00e0 th\u1edd. Giao ph\u00f3 cho nh\u00e0 th\u1edd tr\u00e1ch nhi\u1ec7m truy\u1ec1n t\u1ea3i c\u00e1c gi\u00e1 tr\u1ecb v\u0103n h\u00f3a x\u00e3 h\u1ed9i l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t sai l\u1ea7m l\u1edbn. Khi ng\u01b0\u1eddi tr\u1ebb l\u1edbn l\u00ean v\u00e0 th\u1ea5t v\u1ecdng v\u1edbi m\u1ed9t s\u1ed1 ng\u01b0\u1eddi trong t\u1ed5 ch\u1ee9c, anh ta s\u1ebd r\u1eddi b\u1ecf t\u01b0 c\u00e1ch th\u00e0nh vi\u00ean c\u1ee7a c\u1ed9ng \u0111\u1ed3ng m\u00e0 anh ta \u0111\u00e3 tham d\u1ef1, \u0111\u1ed3ng th\u1eddi anh ta n\u1ed5i lo\u1ea1n ch\u1ed1ng l\u1ea1i b\u1ea5t k\u1ef3 v\u00e0 t\u1ea5t c\u1ea3 c\u00e1c lo\u1ea1i gi\u00e1 tr\u1ecb x\u00e3 h\u1ed9i.<\/p>\n
Khi cha m\u1eb9 \u00fd th\u1ee9c r\u1eb1ng h\u1ecd kh\u00f4ng sinh ra con c\u00e1i cho \u0110\u1ee9c Ch\u00faa Tr\u1eddi, h\u1ecd \u00e1p d\u1ee5ng nhi\u1ec1u h\u01a1n v\u00e0o vi\u1ec7c gi\u00e1o d\u1ee5c v\u00e0 truy\u1ec1n gi\u00e1o cho tr\u1ebb em. H\u1ecd c\u0169ng kh\u00f4ng tuy\u1ec7t v\u1ecdng khi th\u1ea5y ch\u1ed3i non c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 t\u00e2m tr\u1ea1ng \u0111i l\u1ec5. H\u1ecd s\u1ebd kh\u00f4ng c\u1ea3m th\u1ea5y t\u1ed9i l\u1ed7i ho\u1eb7c c\u00f3 tr\u00e1ch nhi\u1ec7m v\u1edbi con c\u00e1i khi h\u1ecd kh\u00f4ng gi\u1ea3i quy\u1ebft m\u1ed9t s\u1ed1 v\u1ea5n \u0111\u1ec1 v\u1ec1 th\u1ec3 ch\u1ebf.<\/p>\n
Tuy nhi\u00ean, c\u1ea7n thi\u1ebft ph\u1ea3i gi\u00e1o d\u1ee5c tr\u1ebb em th\u00f4ng qua vi\u1ec7c d\u1ea1y l\u1eddi Ch\u00faa, nh\u01b0ng kh\u00f4ng qu\u00ean truy\u1ec1n v\u00e0 kh\u1eafc s\u00e2u c\u00e1c gi\u00e1 tr\u1ecb x\u00e3 h\u1ed9i. Gi\u00e1o d\u1ee5c bao g\u1ed3m tr\u00f2 chuy\u1ec7n, ch\u01a1i, la m\u1eafng, c\u1ea3nh c\u00e1o, v.v. Cho ph\u00e9p tr\u1ebb tr\u1ea3i qua t\u1ea5t c\u1ea3 c\u00e1c giai \u0111o\u1ea1n c\u1ee7a cu\u1ed9c \u0111\u1eddi, t\u1eeb th\u1eddi th\u01a1 \u1ea5u, thi\u1ebfu ni\u00ean v\u00e0 thanh ni\u00ean.<\/p>\n
Nh\u01b0ng, ph\u1ea3i l\u00e0m g\u00ec khi tr\u1ebb em \u0111i l\u1ea1c kh\u1ecfi nh\u00e0 th\u1edd? Tr\u01b0\u1edbc ti\u00ean, c\u1ea7n ph\u1ea3i ph\u00e2n bi\u1ec7t li\u1ec7u tr\u1ebb em \u0111\u00e3 \u0111i l\u1ea1c kh\u1ecfi ph\u00fac \u00e2m hay \u0111\u00e3 xa r\u1eddi m\u1ed9t t\u1ed5 ch\u1ee9c c\u1ee5 th\u1ec3.<\/p>\n
Vi\u1ec7c b\u1ecf qua c\u00e1c nguy\u00ean t\u1eafc ph\u00fac \u00e2m c\u01a1 b\u1ea3n khi\u1ebfn cha m\u1eb9 nh\u1ea7m l\u1eabn \u00fd ngh\u0129a c\u1ee7a vi\u1ec7c tr\u1edf th\u00e0nh con c\u00e1i \u0110\u1ee9c Ch\u00faa Tr\u1eddi v\u1edbi vi\u1ec7c thu\u1ed9c v\u1ec1 m\u1ed9t gi\u00e1o h\u1ed9i c\u1ee5 th\u1ec3. N\u1ebfu m\u1ed9t \u0111\u1ee9a tr\u1ebb kh\u00f4ng c\u00f2n th\u01b0\u1eddng xuy\u00ean \u0111\u1ebfn nh\u00e0 th\u1edd, n\u00f3 kh\u00f4ng n\u00ean b\u1ecb d\u00e1n nh\u00e3n l\u00e0 \u0111i l\u1ea1c, ho\u1eb7c n\u00f3 \u0111ang s\u1ea3i b\u01b0\u1edbc xu\u1ed1ng \u0111\u1ecba ng\u1ee5c, v.v.<\/p>\n
N\u1ebfu m\u1ed9t ng\u01b0\u1eddi tuy\u00ean x\u01b0ng l\u1ebd th\u1eadt c\u1ee7a ph\u00fac \u00e2m nh\u01b0 th\u00e1nh th\u01b0 \u0111\u00e3 n\u00f3i, \u0111i\u1ec1u \u0111\u00f3 c\u00f3 ngh\u0129a l\u00e0 anh ta kh\u00f4ng ph\u1ea3i l\u00e0 ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111i l\u1ea1c, nh\u01b0ng ch\u1ec9 n\u00ean \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c c\u1ea3nh b\u00e1o khi c\u00f3 nhu c\u1ea7u t\u1ee5 h\u1ecdp. C\u00e1c b\u1eadc cha m\u1eb9 c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 c\u1ea7n ph\u1ea3i \u0111i\u1ec1u tra l\u00fd do t\u1ea1i sao con c\u00e1i c\u1ee7a h\u1ecd b\u1ecf th\u00f3i quen g\u1eb7p g\u1ee1 v\u1edbi c\u00e1c t\u00edn \u0111\u1ed3 \u0110\u1ea5ng Christ kh\u00e1c.<\/p>\n
B\u00e2y gi\u1edd, n\u1ebfu ng\u01b0\u1eddi con trai kh\u00f4ng tuy\u00ean x\u01b0ng l\u1ebd th\u1eadt c\u1ee7a ph\u00fac \u00e2m v\u00e0 ti\u1ebfp t\u1ee5c t\u1ee5 t\u1eadp theo th\u00f3i quen, th\u00ec t\u00ecnh tr\u1ea1ng c\u1ee7a anh ta tr\u01b0\u1edbc m\u1eb7t \u0110\u1ee9c Ch\u00faa Tr\u1eddi \u0111ang g\u00e2y kh\u00f3 kh\u0103n. Anh ta bi\u1ebft g\u00ec v\u1ec1 ph\u00fac \u00e2m? Anh ta c\u00f3 tuy\u00ean x\u01b0ng \u0111\u1ee9c tin c\u1ee7a ph\u00fac \u00e2m kh\u00f4ng? N\u1ebfu c\u00e2u tr\u1ea3 l\u1eddi l\u00e0 ph\u1ee7 \u0111\u1ecbnh, th\u00ec c\u1ea7n ph\u1ea3i c\u00f4ng b\u1ed1 l\u1ebd th\u1eadt c\u1ee7a ph\u00fac \u00e2m, \u0111\u1ec3 anh ta c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 tin v\u00e0 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c c\u1ee9u, ch\u1ee9 kh\u00f4ng ch\u1ec9 l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111i nh\u00e0 th\u1edd.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"
L\u00e0 th\u00e0nh vi\u00ean c\u1ee7a x\u00e3 h\u1ed9i, c\u00e1c b\u1eadc cha m\u1eb9 theo \u0111\u1ea1o C\u01a1 \u0111\u1ed1c c\u1ea7n ph\u1ea3i gi\u00e1o d\u1ee5c con c\u00e1i, v\u00e0 h\u1ecd kh\u00f4ng \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c ph\u00f3 m\u1eb7c cho nh\u00e0 th\u1edd, hay b\u1ea5t k\u1ef3 t\u1ed5 ch\u1ee9c n\u00e0o kh\u00e1c.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":37,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_acf_changed":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[1],"tags":[6,9,18,25],"class_list":["post-36","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-sem-categoria","tag-cha-me","tag-con-cai","tag-nha-tho","tag-su-cuu-roi"],"acf":[],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/estudobiblico.org\/vi\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/36","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/estudobiblico.org\/vi\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/estudobiblico.org\/vi\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/estudobiblico.org\/vi\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/estudobiblico.org\/vi\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=36"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/estudobiblico.org\/vi\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/36\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/estudobiblico.org\/vi\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/37"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/estudobiblico.org\/vi\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=36"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/estudobiblico.org\/vi\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=36"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/estudobiblico.org\/vi\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=36"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}